Hideaway Strath I was nineteen in a white dress

This wolf had seen many versions of reality, that of which separated them in such way. Tsunari had known only her world. Maybe that was why she'd been so hesitant to leave and start anew. But this was what she had been trained for. This was the assignment her Shujin had given. And so she would accomplish this first, above all other things.
The she wolf thought it was funny, really, that the man would assume this had all meant the clans were kinder. No, that is not the case. There may be a divine line between how you perceive things outside... but if you spent time in one of these clans, you would think differently. There are not just rules, but oaths; oaths of life servitude. If you pledge yourself to a non-blood clan and try to leave, you will be considered a traitor and likely be killed. If not executed on the spot, they will send their hunters to find you and finish the job. That was only one of the worst things.
Having children is not the most ideal thing for females wanting to be mothers. Once the children are born, they are property of the clan, not the parents that produced. If a mother or father attempts to fight for their children or hide them away, the whelps will be left to the fate of the river.
Back to what he'd mentioned before. There is no such thing as fairness in most aspects of life. Everyone has lines they cannot cross and punishments if they do. Some choose the harsher bounds, while other pursue those with less life-threatening means. Regardless, there is always some freedom to be stripped away. Some receiving more than others.