Moonspear Frozen here on the ladder of my life

"Here's the trick with "life-ruining-good", my dear," Lele emphasized the last word, retaliating for his hint of patronizing tone earlier. "Life does not stop at that one particular moment. It moves on. Then what? It is kind of like in that joke about all the people, who have committed suicide. And - guess what - the next day they feel different, but there is nothing you can do about it," she grinned. 

"So you formed one big and happy polyamorous family and lived happily ever after?" she asked sarcastically, but there was no malice in her voice. Just her having fun. "Like in the fairy-tales? Which part of the kingdom did you get?"

The suicide quote - paraphrased and borrowed from "Austenland" movie.