Is there anyway i can have this account (goldensun) deleted?

Accounts are not deleted! If you do not want to write with a character that is fine, and the account will sit inactive. :)

To revive an account you do not use the maintenance thread. You go to Account > Manage Groups and request to have the account added to the Loner group, or to any pack groups if they've joined a pack. This can take up to two days to be completed because, as you said, the staff do have lives outside of the game.

I'm sorry if you feel you've been overlooked!