April 15, 2016, 06:22 PM
Faramir's distrust was proved strongly, many wolves that were probably important to him just left him. Samuel nodded his head to show he was listening, his gears turning and circulating to decipher the code to solving this problem. Trust was hard to earn, but so easy to lose.
Samuel remembered his own trust issues, though he had managed to train himself to half-trust others, then go full in later. He looked towards Faramir warmly, hoping to disarm him. Your reasons are very valid Faramir, you have every right to not be very trusting of others. Samuel wouldn't lie about something as important as trust, trust was a bond that brought others together tightly.
Adapting to the loss of important wolves in your life is very difficult, almost impossible- he paused. Almost, but not exactly. Samuel had to pull a few ideas out of his brain to think of ways to build trust with Faramir. But first and foremost, he wanted to address the problem head on.
One of the biggest things that can cause distrust is labeling. Samuel spoke of something almost everyone did, label. Whether it was from stereotypes or just past experiences, everyone has done it at least once. What we must do is not judge those today like those from our past, but look into them as a fresh slate. It can be very difficult for those to break their habits, but not impossible. The feeling of judging others was not something that anyone felt needed, it was just their brain signaling something from a past memory. Samuel would need to erase those bad memories.
Know that every single person you meet will be different from the last.
Samuel remembered his own trust issues, though he had managed to train himself to half-trust others, then go full in later. He looked towards Faramir warmly, hoping to disarm him. Your reasons are very valid Faramir, you have every right to not be very trusting of others. Samuel wouldn't lie about something as important as trust, trust was a bond that brought others together tightly.
Adapting to the loss of important wolves in your life is very difficult, almost impossible- he paused. Almost, but not exactly. Samuel had to pull a few ideas out of his brain to think of ways to build trust with Faramir. But first and foremost, he wanted to address the problem head on.
One of the biggest things that can cause distrust is labeling. Samuel spoke of something almost everyone did, label. Whether it was from stereotypes or just past experiences, everyone has done it at least once. What we must do is not judge those today like those from our past, but look into them as a fresh slate. It can be very difficult for those to break their habits, but not impossible. The feeling of judging others was not something that anyone felt needed, it was just their brain signaling something from a past memory. Samuel would need to erase those bad memories.
Know that every single person you meet will be different from the last.
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RE: Crazy Boy - by Faramir - March 26, 2016, 12:17 PM
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RE: Crazy Boy - by Faramir - March 27, 2016, 06:52 PM
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RE: Crazy Boy - by Faramir - April 01, 2016, 10:39 PM
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RE: Crazy Boy - by Faramir - April 04, 2016, 04:34 PM
RE: Crazy Boy - by Samuel - April 10, 2016, 04:39 PM
RE: Crazy Boy - by Faramir - April 13, 2016, 06:55 PM
RE: Crazy Boy - by Samuel - April 15, 2016, 06:22 PM
RE: Crazy Boy - by Faramir - April 17, 2016, 06:32 PM
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RE: Crazy Boy - by Faramir - April 26, 2016, 07:56 PM
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