Dawnlark Plains then they called me, too

Grayday let out a huff of laughter, not sure how much he wanted to say to Shale about the younger wolf. Like Shale, he did not exactly approve of the sort of disrespectful talk he'd taken part in during his youth, but he also believed in being open and frank about... pretty much everything, really.

"I happen to know she's into older men," he said nonchalantly. "Otherwise I'd've had her and Sunny together by now. As it is, it looks as though I might have to settle for having her as a sister-in-law instead." His expression turned planative, now. "Shale, I don't know what's happened to you. We've all suffered, I think. But keeping yourself from others is not the way to heal, and I'd much rather see Pema with a good man like you than with some stranger from another family."

Translation: If he had to allow another man's children into his pack, they might as well be his nieces and nephews.