Neverwinter Forest I’m here on funky business

You can't beat yourself up over something you can't fix now, she told him. Easier said than done, she knew. It was also the pot calling the kettle black, but she hated seeing him so torn up over something he couldn't do anything about. She was of the opinion that Cupid was maybe a little too hard on Mal, and some might view that as a biased opinion, but she didn't care. Mal did a lot for everyone, and she didn't like that he was so torn up over what had happened between him and Cupid. 

Simmik shook her head. I think you're being too hard on yourself, Mal, she countered. You do a lot for all of us, but you can't always keep bad things from happening; that's not your fault. She swallowed and looked away. Sometimes shit just happens and there's nothing anyone can do about it. It was something she kept trying to tell herself as well. It was hard not to think about all the ways she could have avoided what happened to her, and that just made the psychological wounds deeper.