Swiftcurrent Creek too late; i'm coming undone

There were things being said between the lines that she didn't fully understand, and she hated how lost in the details she felt.  

It's unfair to put all of that on yourself, Eshe agreed, picking up where Arric had left off. Honestly, I don't understand why she'd even turn the blame on you—for everything? She paused; why would he be to blame? What was she missing?