The Heartwood Similar vows

"Or in death," Dwin managed to interject, finding it odd that one would have to wait for the next life to truly know everything, when it might as well be that you were the same clueless idiot on the second go as you had been oin the first. "Death is the only certain thing - mom says. And you kind of become eternal, when your body dies. It disintegrates and continues to live as something else. There is some debate of, where the soul goes, of course," she mused.

Heph did not sound very convinced about that Rodyn-wolf. Dwin would have expected at least a half of excitement Dee had felt for the prospect of marriage and building a family, but she got a completely different vibe from this lass. It was as if... as if... the guy wanted to get married more than she did. That she went along with it just because... heh... Why were relationships so difficult? Why were social constructs so complex? They just messed with people's lives. 

"Yeah, I don't think you will get to go out and travel much around, once you get married. I speak from experience - he will not want to travel around, he will let you, but he will be very obviously unhappy about it and in the end you will give up on that to make him happy. Saw that happen to a... friend of mine," she told her mom's story. "Is this - something you really, really want or you do it because everyone your age does it or you think they have to do it?" she asked. "I just... I may have to face the same decision one day myself. Therefore it is good to know different perspectives."