Blackfeather Woods birth spite

Dwin began to laugh and shook her head at the mention of being at fault for someone else being weak in spirit and mind. "Well, I have never been married myself, but I am very sure that you can not take responsibility for someone else's life and their choices. I mean, spirit is the same as a limb. If you lose it or you do not have it to begin with, no amount of love and dedication and work and whatnot will make it appear," maybe it was not the best analogy, but that would have to do for now. 

"By the same logic - if you do not have strength in yourself, how on Earth you are going to find it elsewhere?" but - as the girl had pointed out correctly, everyone had their opinions and beliefs. Her life experience had taught her to view life this way. Dwin was inclined to feel pity, but she then levelled this out by thinking that her ideas were in no way superior. They were, what they were. 

"What do you consider a strong man?" she asked, realizing that she was asking just one personal question too many over the course of this conversation, but it was not really the private life of the other girl she was interested in. Rather - curious to learn, what others thought of life.