The Heartwood Similar vows

"Yeah, but most edible things tend to expire and as much fun as fancy bones and gems and other trinkets are, they won't feed you, when you grow hungry," Dwin mused, trying to imagine herself in Dee's place (that would never happen, but she enjoyed opportunities for a mental exercise). What would she ask for the man to do for her? What would she want to have in the partner, should she ever be in the position to choose? Hunting prowess? Demonstrations of strenght and wit? Storytelling? These were all things she could do herself, which meant that she did not know. The closest she got was that he had to surprise her. 

"What would you ask the man, who wanted to court you, do?" she asked Heph, who had proven to be a very engaging conversation partner with interesting views and angles of life. "Or are you already courted and married off and settled?" she added. "In that case - what did the guy do to impress you?"