Blackfeather Woods birth spite

Dwin had a lot of issue with "I have to choose wisely" thing, but she did not say anything, because it was very likely that Racharra had more experience with people than Dwin had had. She simply did not have that much trust in her own judgement being unbiased. Far too often she like many others lived with the idea of who the other people were or should be, but she could not really know for sure. Well... in rare instances Dwin believed that she had been right. For example, the guy, whose name she could not recall, had been attractive as hell and she had enjoyed pulling his leg and flirting with him. But she knew he was not the family-kind material, nor someone you could partner up with. His best quality had been his blunt honesty and the fact that neither needed or expected anything from one another. Dwin was not so sure that she would not fall prey to someone, whot was deeply flawed, but conjured a mask of being The One.

"I approach this from a different angle. My mom taught me that you have to love yourself first, before you can love someone else," again - as her narrator has repeated this many times before - whenever Dwin quoted a grain of wisdom that she could not trace back to the original source, it was placed in the "my mom said..." list. "So from that logic, if I appreciate myself, I do not need validation in someone else's eyes. I am complete on my own as well," she explained. 

"But that's different for everyone, of course. All kinds of good come out of people marrying. I would not be standing here and talking to you had my mom decided to skip the children and family-life and continue travelling and adventuring. She gave up one life path for me and my siblings and I will be forever grateful to her for that," she smiled and it was clear that she was very, very fond of her mother.