Sun Mote Copse I'm getting older too

Me's been recently reading a book about mind management and there was a little wisdom there that applies well to the different ways Fenn felt about giving a promise to her parents and to Wraen. There is a big difference between "should" and "can". "You should come home" entails judgement and guilt-tripping, if you do not do that. Whereas "You can come home" means there is an opportunity, but no pressure. You can do that and you may choose well to do differently. Without knowing all this Wraen had always been the person, who preferred "can", and - in fact - it was the cornerstone of the very pack she was leading. You had always a choice and were not judged for having that option. 

"I will wait eagerly for that moment," Wraen replied and she knew that she would be just as equally happy to meet Fenn "soon" and "not so soon". "Whenever that path of yours comes by this old nest," she added.

You can wrap up in your next post, if you wish! :)