Tuktu Weir I hate to look into those eyes and see an ounce of pain

"I have heard that spinsters - you know those that never marry and grow old - they are grumpy by definition. So - I have all the chances. Plus, gender thing is not a problem either. After all, what matters is, how you feel and not how other people see you," Wraen explained, though until today being a "grumpy grandpa" had not been on the long list of people she wanted to be someday. 

"Only, if you want to. I mean - you fit the description perfectly: old, stiff, with white beard (almost) and wise as the world," she named all of the qualities that made good grandfathers. According to the stories she had heard. "That's unfortunate then..." though that was one of the things grandpas did - they grew old and then a little more and then they died. "In that case... I won't bore you with my dashing personality - I guess, you are more curious about, what Osprey is doing, huh?"