Sun Mote Copse time's the revelator

"That is not a healthy fear to live with," Wraen pointed out, thinking that by "all this" Arcturus meant his current life. Not too long ago he had lost everything that had been close and dear to him and yet now he was fine. At least she hoped he was, though she knew that even if he spoke to her more than with the rest of the pack, he still kept a lot to himself. Honestly - throughout their acquaintance, she had learned quite a lot about him by doing guesswork and making assumptions, but it was not as if Arcturus had told her much himself. 

"Life's always a bit on the downhill, when you leave something behind and start something new, or make a big decision of any kind, but then it goes up again," Wraen said. "That answers your question. I just quoted my mom," she explained. "Favourite thing to do besides pack duties?"